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Flört şiddeti, bir kişinin duygusal/romantik/cinsel bir ilişkide bulunduğu partnerinden ilişki boyunca veya ilişki bittikten sonra gördüğü fiziksel, cinsel, psikolojik/duygusal veya ısrarlı takip gibi şiddet türlerini içeren davranışlardır. Flört şiddetine maruz kalmayı arttıran faktörler olarak; toplumsal cinsiyet rolleri, akran şiddetine maruz kalmak, flört şiddetinin kabul edilebilir olduğu inancı, aile içi şiddete maruz kalmak, çocukluk çağı travmaları bildirilmektedir. Flört şiddeti genellikle ergenlik ve gençlik dönemlerinde görüldüğü için bu dönemde davranış kalıbı olarak öğrenilen şiddet, yetişkinlik döneminde aile içindeki çatışmaları çözmek için kullanılabilmektedir. Böylece flört şiddeti, fiziksel ve ruhsal sağlık sonuçlarının yanında aile içi şiddeti de sürekli hale getirebilmektedir. Flört şiddetinin artan prevalansı ve sonuçları dünyada olduğu gibi ülkemizde de flört şiddetini bir halk sağlığı sorunu olarak karşımıza çıkarmaktadır. Bu derleme sosyal medyada, okulda, akran ortamlarında sıklıkla yaşanan bu sorun ile karşılaşabilen ruh sağlığı çalışanlarının sorunu tanımlamaları ve kişinin bildirdiği ruhsal belirtilerin flört şiddeti ile ilgili olabileceğini göz önünde bulundurmaları için flört şiddeti ile ilgili farkındalığı arttırmak amacıyla yazılmıştır. Bu amaçla derlemede; flört şiddetinin tanımı, çeşitleri, risk faktörleri, yaygınlığı, teorileri, Türkiye’de ve Dünyada yapılmış araştırmalar ve sonuçları gibi başlıklara yer verilmiştir.
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Dating violence is behavior that involves the kind of violence a person sees from his or her partner in an emotional/romantic/sexual relationship throughout the relationship or after the relationship ends, such as physical, sexual, psychological/emotional or persistent stalking. Exposure to dating violence as a factor in gender roles, exposure to peer violence, the belief that dating violence is acceptable, exposure to family violence, childhood trauma have been reported. As dating violence is often seen in adolescence and youth, violence learned as a pattern of behavior during this period can be used to resolve conflicts within the family during adulthood. Thus, dating violence can perpetuate domestic violence as well as physical and mental health consequences. The increasing prevalence and consequences of dating violence in our country as well as in the world presents dating violence as a public health problem. This review was written on social media to raise awareness of dating violence so that mental health workers, who may experience this problem frequently in school and peer settings, can identify the problem and consider that the person's reported mental symptoms may be related to dating violence. For this purpose, topics such as definition, types, risk factors, prevalence, theories, research and results in Turkey and the world are included in the review.
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